
GW, my epicly long crush and one of my better friends, recently broke up with her gf. I know this is terrible, but when she told me I was HAPPY.
I know, I know, that's terrible. But it's not like now that she's single or whatever there's any chance of us getting together....'cause there totally isn't. At all. And I'm honestly not happy about that--I'm happy 'cause the [admittedly few] times I've met her girl friend, I thought she was a total bitch. She was all about herself and my god, it was irritating. GW is just about the nicest person ever; she's disgustingly sweet at times, and has a habit of letting herself get trampled in relationships. Her girlfriend was no where near good enough for her--but they went out for 2.5 years.
No, GW was kind of expecting the breakup. They're seniors in college and heading off to different grad schools, so they'd been talking about it. And when she mentioned they'd broken up (over IM) she said she was fine. But this is GW. She doesn't talk about herself, especially not if she's upset--so I told her I doubted she was, and that if she needed anyone to talk to, I was here. Aaaand...she said she was fine, honestly. So what do I do? Do I press the issue and possibly make her feel worse about something she really is okay about? Or do I ignore it and have her mope about by her onesie 'cause she's too silly to talk to people?
Oy. What to do?!
Oh dear, I meant to post
Oh dear, I meant to post this as a journal entry. Not sure how that happened...does anyone know how I go about deleting this?